12:59 -- I am on the phone doing a interview this pops up: "How's baby today?"
I don't respond, and by about 1:13 I get this. "Why are you so downright nasty? Can't tell me how is baby."
I text back: "She is at the daycare. You know that. You usually call them to find out how she is doing. You call them everyday. You are just texting me now to harrass me at work, and it's been noted."
His reply: 1:23 p.m. "Ur idot."
I don't reply. It's time to shut him out, knowing the insults will only get worse. Sure enough, two minutes later at 1:25 -- "Fine don't tell me, heartless beyoch."
Today it's almost civil for him. Yesterday with his 7-year old son in the backseat he shouts. " You could have someone there and
fucking him in the garage I don't give a damn."
All this because I asked him to drop baby off at work because -- shock -- I was at work. I also knew that if I met him at the house it would be more of his verbal abuse. I have made it a point of never allow him in my house or be anywhere private with him. That at least forces him to be somewhat civil, and he wonders why I don't want to be with.
